Keep Coming Back
Richard Marx · Greatest Hits
Mistakes compulsive, painful attachment for passionate love.
Where the words land
Signal: Strained, leaning worth weighing.
What do these signals mean?
- Edifying: Points the heart toward God, truth, hope, or love.
- Worth Weighing: Real good and real concern together. Test it before you take it in.
- Strained: Strains against Scripture: leans toward what could dull or mislead.
- At Odds: At odds with Scripture: celebrates what it warns against. Little here builds up.
Weighed against Scripture
“You must be the devil in disguise”
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
True love is patient and kind, not something that wounds and frightens; naming a partner 'the devil' while staying devoted exposes the confusion at the song's core.
“There's some kind of madness in your eyes”
“Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life.”
Guarding the heart means recognizing danger, not staying fixated on someone whose presence brings fear.
“Why should I try, I don't want to get over you”
“The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?”
The singer's own admission that his heart is confused and deceived mirrors this warning about the heart's capacity to mislead itself.
The song as a whole
“Everything is permissible for me,” but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible for me,” but I will not be mastered by anything.
The song's refrain of compulsive return despite harm ('I don't know why I keep coming back') illustrates being mastered by a craving rather than walking in freedom.
In short
This is a song about being pulled back into a relationship that hurts, dressed in the language of irresistible passion. The singer admits fear and confusion but frames his inability to leave as romantic rather than troubling. There's no turn toward health or resolution, just a loop of attraction to pain.
- Lyrical content
No profanity, but depicts a relationship marked by fear, hurt, and confusion dressed up as romance.
- Spiritual posture
The song glamorizes an addictive, painful attachment, framing compulsion and self-deception as love rather than naming it as harmful.
- Apparent intent
Likely meant as an emotional pop ballad about obsessive love, but it romanticizes a toxic dynamic without any self-awareness or turn toward health.
What do these ratings mean?
- Lyrical content, what the words say on the surface. Clean: nothing coarse, sexual or violent. Mild: a trace of it, by allusion or a rare word. Strong: profanity, sex or violence in plain words. Explicit: graphic, or sin held up to admire.
- Spiritual posture, where the song's heart points. God-honoring: toward God, truth or hope. Searching: honestly reaching or wrestling toward truth, without arriving. Neutral: spiritually indifferent; neither reaches nor rejects. Dark: despairing, nihilistic, self-exalting or hostile to God.
- Apparent intent, what the song is for. Edifying: worship, encouragement, honest lament. Cathartic: letting grief, anger or longing out, told honestly. Ambiguous: hard to say what the song is for. Harmful: celebrates evil, mocks faith or draws toward sin.
Does this song's portrait of love square with what you know love is meant to look like, even in its ache?
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